Tuesday, November 11, 2014

FREEdom isn't Free





























"True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic, it is not the urge to surpass others at all cost but to surve others at all costs."-Arthur Ashe

 The two pictures above were taken on a trip to D.C. a year ago. The first is at the Korean War memorial. The second is inside Arlington National Cemetery.

I've never been in a place that evokes quite so many emotions like Arlington does. I'm not sure how anyone could step inside and not feel thankful. The mass number of bodies laid to rest there is astonishing. Every single one of them a key piece in our freedom from one point in time or another. Each white marker holds a story of how freedom was fought for, protected, and won because of a sacrifice made. It is hallowed ground. Beautiful, inspiring hallowed ground.

 A week ago I stood in a line and voted. Such a simple thing that is so important and so few people take the time to actually do. One of the many things I can do because of the people who died to make it that way. Today is Veteran's Day.  These past few days I've been trying to figure out what I wanted to say and how I wanted to say it. Often that is not the easiest thing despite my love of words. Getting my feelings and thoughts into a tidy piece about some subject or another requires work. Work that this past week was focused on preparing a lesson for our Young Adult Bible Study. While writing everything for that yesterday it hit me, My ability to do what I will do tonight is because of the people in Arlington and around the world, living and gone, who sacrificed themselves for my freedom.

The very word freedom is almost a paradox. No where in time has freedom come freely. It has come with the price of blood, sweat, tears, and lives. From the Revolutionary War onward gaining freedom came at the cost of husbands, sons, daughters and families. This is a payment that shouldn't be overlooked. When a loved one in lost to this cause it changes things and I think it is easy to forget the families of those who are lost protecting us. We have what we have because they lost something. 

I'm glad that this isn't a day marked with large firework displays and barbecues.  Not because I don't think our Veterans and those who currently served in the Armed Forces should be celebrated, they should. If I didn't agree with it I wouldn't write about it. I'm just happy to see that it hasn't become so commercialized that the very reason the day exists is passed over for a reason to eat food and shoot colored lights into the sky.

It isn't hard to be thankful for the freedom I have when I need only to see the news or newspaper headlines of how things are progressing worldwide. The rights we have, that we can exercise are so vast and it is because so many make sure we live in a place where we have a chance to make ourselves heard and to choose how we wish to live. Blood-bought, hard-fought, and supported by the men and women of the Armed Forces. We are free because they chose to make sure it stayed that way no matter the cost.

To those who give me such freedoms I want to say Thank You. Your sacrifice won't be forgotten.

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Orphan Sunday-November 2, 2014/National Adoption Month

"Orphans are easier to forget until you see their faces and you know their names."-David Platt

With November being National Adoption Month and today being Orphan Sunday, it is time I collect my thoughts. This is a subject that is never far from my mind. Usually I deal with it in words more than once a year. However, I like the regularity of annually updating on Orphan Sunday. It gives me and the blog one planned post. When the others are hit and miss and I go months without writing a single post it is nice to know that when the first Sunday of November rolls around I’ll be updating. 

Another year has passed and as such I’m that much closer to being able to adopt. While most people count down to their thirtieth birthday with the dread of being the big 3-0, I’m eagerly awaiting that January 20th exactly five years-two months and eighteen days from now. If you’ve just stumbled upon this blog or maybe you aren’t sure why thirty seems like a big deal allow me to explain. There are differing regulations and requirements depending on the country you adopt from. Adopting from China means I have to be thirty. There are other requirements I must meet first, like marriage, but I can’t control that. My age on the other hand is a tangible thing I can look at and see that I’m getting closer. 

This year has been an interesting one. For the first time I doubted whether or not adoption was for me. I wrestled with if I was strong enough to deal with the myriad of things that come with the call and the life that accompanies it. Thankfully it didn’t take me long to realize I wasn’t. While I’m not, my God is and that is all I need to know. It is His overwhelming grace and strength that will get me through those future doubts and problems. I don’t want it to appear that I’m making light of the arduous journey ahead of me but I do know what it is to throw everything at the feet of the One who made me because I don’t have the strength or the wisdom to continue in a situation. 

This time last year I’d just sent in the first money raised from the proceeds of The Forgotten to Show Hope and Tennessee Baptist Children’s Home. A few months ago the book became a paperback and not just an e-book. It is very strange holding something you worked so diligently on in your hands and knowing that it is complete. The original proof copy currently sits on the bookshelf in my bedroom amongst some of my favorite authors.  

Today though, this day. November 2, 2014, isn’t lost on me. It would have been another day of praying for the Fatherless and doing what I can to make those in my social network aware of this special day except that today my church had a children’s day. A day in which the children’s choir helped lead worship and an offering was taken to help the children’s ministry. Items that the children had made were auctioned off to raise funds. Having a church that considers children important is a beautiful thing. I spent the last seven years involved in that children’s ministry as a nursery worker. What makes this day so different is that while as a church we praised God for his gift of the children within the body of Bayside, there were millions of people worldwide praying for children as well. Except they prayed for families. They prayed that people would realize that we are called to defend the orphan. They prayed that God would raise up parents and advocates and workers amongst a harvest that is so big and ready and lacking in hands.  While a little over a thousand people spent the day today thanking God for the children he’s put around us and given us, I prayed even harder for the 147 million children who need to know the love of the God we were thanking and needed parents and advocates to show them that love. I prayed that with whatever He’s given me and gifted me with that as He’s given me a heart for this He would use me to change things. 

I learned a long time ago that asking for small things is perfectly fine. Asking for big things is even better. Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying physical property. I’m speaking of being used as the hands and feet of God. Why pray for small things? God is big, God is all powerful. So why pigeon-hole the Creator of everything into working some tiny detail? I think sometimes that it is easy to get caught up in the notion that because it seems impossible to us we can’t take it to God. Often it is as if we forget who it is that we are actually dealing with. This is God. THE God. Yaweh. He can do anything, and if I am His child and He in all his wisdom has given me a heart for Orphans why in the world wouldn’t I ask Him to use me in a way that only He could?

I have no idea what this next year will look like. How God will use me in this matter or where he will take me with it is anyone’s guess. There is something exciting about that uncertainty, In knowing that God is going to use me as inadequate as I am because He’s put this in me. For now I wait. I Pray. I seek and I trust. 

Want to know more about Orphan Sunday or how you can join God’s people around the world working to help the Fatherless?

Visit the following websites:


ShowHope.org    



Want to read more about Orphan Care and how God is already working in people to ‘Defend the Orphan’ as He calls us to do in Isaiah 1:17? The following books are great sources:

Orphan Justice :Johnny Carr

Orphanology :Tony Merida & Rick Morton

Know Orphans:Rick Morton


 If you are interested in checking out my book The Forgotten you can get it here: The Forgotten